I have been involved in Family Court as a judicial officer, a lawyer, an adult, and a child

I learned growing up how important the family side of the family legal system is.

Working at the Washoe County Family Court, I realized how important the legal side of the family legal system is.

Early Years

I was born to a single mother in rural Montana. I was raised by my grandma on her ranch. My mother struggled with addiction and was not able to care for a precocious, high-spirited child like me. My grandma died when I was four years old and I started living with my mother. After that, I had experiences with child protective services and was put into short-term foster care more times than I can remember.

Many of my mom’s boyfriends hurt and abused her in front of me. I remember trying to make “traps” out of coat hangers and Legos to keep bad men away from my mom.

I was often left alone in our small trailer while my mother waited tables. Ironically, though my mother worked in busy restaurants, I was hungry most of the time.

When I was about 7, my mother and I moved to Moab, Utah where she met and married my stepfather. He was a good man and I inherited a step-family who knew how to take care of a child. Growing up in a small town I learned to resolve conflicts amicably, face-to-face, honesty, and quickly. But I also learned that sometimes a fight is exactly what you need when something is important to you.

I dropped out of high school when I was 16. I earned my GED and worked my way through college at the University of Utah. When I graduated, I worked a lot of different jobs, including a counselor at a long-term group home for teenage boys. I always wanted to go to law school.

I turned 30 in my first year of law school at Case Western Reserve University School of Law in Cleveland, Ohio. I attended law school on an academic scholarship.

Professional Experience

After I graduated from law school, I served as a Judicial Law Clerk to three different Washoe County Family Court Judges. I now own a small law firm in Reno and practice exclusively in Family Law. Prior to that, I served as a Family Court Master for the Second Judicial District Court in Washoe County for seven and a half years. In that role, I heard over 18,000 cases involving many family law issues, including child support enforcement, domestic violence and protection orders, juvenile guardianships, juvenile dependency cases, divorce, custody, visitation, and adoption cases.

Prior to my service as a Court Master, I was a Deputy Attorney General at the Attorney General’s office. I also worked to represent parents in Juvenile Dependency cases. I am a Certified Mediator through the National Judicial College.

I believe that being a good judge and a good lawyer also means being a good teacher. Helping people understand what’s happening and explaining legal matters in a straightforward way is one of the best parts of working in the law. I have taught family law issues locally, at the statewide Nevada Family Law Conference, and at national judicial conferences. I also taught aspiring paralegals at a local career college.

Read more about my professional experience. 

Personal Life

I am happily married to my wife of ten years, and we have known each other for almost twice as long. We are raising two incredible young boys together. I hope we provide our sons the kind of certainty that I did not have growing up. I never want them to worry about food, clothing, or shelter. I want them to learn to be brave while still feeling secure and safe.

So far, my greatest adventures have been ice climbing in Antarctica, skydiving in Amish country, hiking Monte Fitz Roy in Argentina, climbing “slime walls” in Wales and sandstone in southern Utah, and parenting two rowdy boys – the most incredible adventure of all.


Empathy and Understanding

What sets me apart as a candidate for Family Court Judge is what I have done with my childhood experiences and trauma. I used that pain every day to as a Family Court Master to understand, relate, and make connections with the people who found themselves in Family Court. It helps me understand people in a way that most of my colleagues in the legal profession cannot. It makes me empathetic.

I believe it is precisely my experience, that pain, that allows me to be the caliber of Judge required for Family Court.

Lance White hugging sons at Registrar